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Would you ever date a retired call-girl/escort? My boyfriend says no one will ever want me.?

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June 20, 2019 / By Jamin
Question: When 17 I became a call girl. I am now 24. If you had met me, you would never guess because I'm just like any other girl; I don't use drugs, I don't smoke and I don't drink except socially or on an occasion. In fact, I am told that I am very sweet, polite and beautiful. My boyfriend however does not. We met in Sacramento at a call girl mixer December 2006. We had a really good time that night and decided to keep seeing each other. He was THEE most romantic, charming person I ever met. He was everything i ever want in a man. He know everything about me and apparently did not care that I had been an escort. We did not plan on falling for each other, but after about 4 months it just happened. So when I realized that we were in some kind of relationship, I quit the call-girl thing. So everything was great for a little while; I was in heaven. Then shortly after being together for a little while he became moody. Then from moody he became controlling and then from controlling he became abusive. He would tell me that I was fat. I am 5'0 tall and at the time I weighed 170 Lbs, But I carried my weight very well and I have a really nice shape. I knew that I could have lost a few pounds, but I was not severely overweight or obese. So I started to believe that I was fat. I went on a low calorie diet of 800 calories a day and I was losing 2 pounds a week. I did this for about 6 months. I am now 136 Lbs 8 Oz. When I look in the mirror I feel that I looked better, but I'm not 105 Lbs. like he wants me to be. He also tells me I am nothing but a whore. He says "nobody is going to want a fat whore like you". This man tells me I am fat everyday! He is constantly belittling me. He makes me feel really dumb and worthless. He says I will never be anything but a whore. We have been together on and off for nearly three years. I am having second thoughts. Sometimes I feel like i would rather be a prostitute/call-girl and get paid to be around respectful gentleman than to be around an asshole like my boyfriend who probably has been using me for free sex, a housekeeper and a cook. At one point he even took $50,000 away from me that I had saved for school and he used it to pay a family law attorney to get custody of his daughter from a previous mirage he was in. he never paid me back and he never will pay me back. I now sit here with no money in my bank except a little over $50.00 and about $10 in my purse. He has been threatening to kick me out. He says he does not want me anymore and that no one will want me because I was a prostitute. I want to move on, I want a good guy who will love me the way I am. No matter what! Do you think I could find someone that I can be honest with about my history? Would you be in a serious relationship with a prostitute?
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Frank Frank | 4 days ago
Yes you can find somebody that respects you and accept you for who you are. It's a plus that you are not on drugs and want to continue your education. I'd be in that kind of relationship as long as she was honest and knew what she wanted in life. The trust and respect would just go for the ride. Everybody will judge you. Sometimes people judge me because of some things from my past. My home is in San Francisco but my business base is in Sacramento. Six years ago my business was not productive and I met a stripper and call girl in San Francisco. She was lovely with a little boy. I cared for her and had fun with her and did not look at her profession in a negative matter. The downfall with most people that do what you do or did is that most of them are addicted and not focused on the positive endeavors like they should be. The girl that I knew was into cocaine and I'm not into drugs. It just would not work. She wanted to get into porn and so I helped her and then moved on. Today I'm divorced from another woman and dating a doctor. You don't need to be abused, no woman does. Things will work out for you in an ample amount of time as long as you stay focused and determined to do so. Just move on. I wish I could try to help more. Take care.
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Frank Originally Answered: Would you ever date a retired call-girl/escort? My boyfriend says no one will ever want me.?
Yes you can find somebody that respects you and accept you for who you are. It's a plus that you are not on drugs and want to continue your education. I'd be in that kind of relationship as long as she was honest and knew what she wanted in life. The trust and respect would just go for the ride. Everybody will judge you. Sometimes people judge me because of some things from my past. My home is in San Francisco but my business base is in Sacramento. Six years ago my business was not productive and I met a stripper and call girl in San Francisco. She was lovely with a little boy. I cared for her and had fun with her and did not look at her profession in a negative matter. The downfall with most people that do what you do or did is that most of them are addicted and not focused on the positive endeavors like they should be. The girl that I knew was into cocaine and I'm not into drugs. It just would not work. She wanted to get into porn and so I helped her and then moved on. Today I'm divorced from another woman and dating a doctor. You don't need to be abused, no woman does. Things will work out for you in an ample amount of time as long as you stay focused and determined to do so. Just move on. I wish I could try to help more. Take care.

Dayton Dayton
You need to dump this loser. The only difference between many prostitutes and many party girls is that the prostitute gets paid many times. I will give you one link for the domestic violence, mental or physical, and you need to raise your self esteem because he has probably destroyed that. You may also try social services in your area to see about getting help there. I suspect that there was a reason you became a call girl at 17 relating to self esteem so if the subject ever comes up just just admit it, perhaps mention the reason, and if a guy doesn't accept that, find someone else.
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Barret Barret
first off you dont need a man, you need to get your own life together before you can have a relationship. Everyone has made mistakes and has something in there life to be ashamed of. If you have learned your lesson and have become a better person then if someone really loves you they wouldn't care about your past. Please get out now, you dont deserve to be treated this way and this man does not love you. I lived with my ex-husband for 1 1/2 yrs before we married and he never layed a hand on me until the day after our marriage, then the beatings started and the belittlement. And i RAN and i RAN fast. You are the only one that can decide how you want to live your life and if you are not happy then you have to fix it yourself. You can do this i have. You will be much happier with yourself and your life to get out NOW. Please before he really hurts you physically/mentally if he hasn't already. Stop thinking about getting another man until you get yourself a life that you are happy with and can bring someone that loves you into it and share they rest of your life with. Please go now hun i know what you are going threw i have had this same thing happen to me and i got out and i know you can too. if you want to talk more you can IM me or e-mail me [email protected] would love to help you GOOD LUCK
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Yolanda Yolanda
Honey, this man does not love you. He just wants your money. Look at the way he treats you, like garbage. Look at where you met him - at a call girl mixer. He was LOOKING for a woman to use, which is all he is doing to you. You deserve so much more.
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Sheena Sheena
Leave him and find a new job other than being a call girl. You deserve better and everyone makes mistakes in their lives. Including you. He shouldnt be treating you like that. Good luck :0)
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Sheena Originally Answered: Why not just call yourself herbivore instead of vegetarian?
Short answer: -arian "believer of" -- applies more to a lifestyle -vore "eater of" -- applies more to a diet Long answer???: I don't know about most, but I have some beliefs that go along with my diet. Because of that I think that it deserves the suffix -arian, since -arian applies to "believer of". If I had no beliefs that accompanied my diet--meaning that it was nothing more than a diet to me, then I would feel correct in calling myself an herbivore. You probably know this, but for the sake of those here that don't; "vegetarian" doesn't mean "someone that eats vegetables". The "vege" comes from "vegetus" meaning healthy, lively, & vigorous. And -arian means believer of. "Vege" doesn't mean "vegetable" (Actually vegetable was formed from vegetus, not the other way around.) Now there are plenty of ways that you could define "vegetarian" based on the two words that it was formed from. "Healthy lifestyle" -GreenGhost's definition I also found another definition, that I like: "Someone who creates a healthy, LIVELY lifestyle by eliminating dead animals (meat) from their diet." But you can look at it anyway that you'd like as long as you take into account the fact that "-arian" applies to a lifestyle and that "vegetus" means healthy, lively, and vigorous. If someone called them self an herbivore, I would assume that they are simply following an herbivorous diet and that there are no beliefs that influenced them to make that decision. I totally get your point though (or atleast I think I do)... I agree that the word vegetarian is abused. And that if "label-loving" people started using (or abusing) the word herbivore instead of distorting the definition of a vegetarian, that it would eliminate the confusion that surrounds the concept of being a veggie. Maybe you have the right idea... But I am not going to start calling myself an herbivore, I am a vegetarian AND an herbivore-- by practice :]

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