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Will there ever be a day when society wont?

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June 25, 2019 / By Matty
Question: make me feel bad about myself? I already fell into the trap of weight loss for "healthy self-esteem". Im angry at myself for saying I want to be thin and actually acomplishing it. I wish I never was thin. I wish I never let society get into my head again or my family. I gained all the weight back and more after 3 years of diet and exersize, now , everyone treats me cold again. I guess I got used to it when I was fat. I freaking did it the right way! no ******* pills, no starving , just eating less and working out with weight. NOw I have to lose weight again and there are these emotional issues to it. I both want to be thin AND fat. So what do I do now, who will be my new weight loss guru after the first one doesn't work anymore? When will my body be mine ?
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Joby Joby | 1 day ago
Your body is yours. Society sucks in its portrayal of women but it is not anyone else's responsibility to make sure you learn to accept and love yourself AS YOU ARE. You need to learn to empower yourself beyond society's perspective of the "ideal woman." That is how the patriarchal system keeps us down, by idealizing certain women and excluding others. Learn to love who you are. Develop a healthy life style plan, commit to fitness and eating healthfully. But more importantly learn to respect who you are. I guarantee you not a pill, a man, a thinner body, or social approval will ever provide you with the satisfaction and deep sense of worth that learning to love yourself will. Best of luck.
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Joby Originally Answered: Will there ever be a day when society wont?
Your body is yours. Society sucks in its portrayal of women but it is not anyone else's responsibility to make sure you learn to accept and love yourself AS YOU ARE. You need to learn to empower yourself beyond society's perspective of the "ideal woman." That is how the patriarchal system keeps us down, by idealizing certain women and excluding others. Learn to love who you are. Develop a healthy life style plan, commit to fitness and eating healthfully. But more importantly learn to respect who you are. I guarantee you not a pill, a man, a thinner body, or social approval will ever provide you with the satisfaction and deep sense of worth that learning to love yourself will. Best of luck.

Greg Greg
You did not feel good about loseing the weight because you did it for the wrong reasons. you did it for society. when you do stuff for society you will never be satisfied if you want to be satisfied with being thin then you need to do it for your own self.
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Duncan Duncan
There will always be a significant portion of society that dislikes you because of something: Your sexuality, your religion or lack thereof, your color, because you are tall, because you are short, because you are fat, because you are thin...Ultimately you just have to be you and say screw them all. I'm what I am.
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Bruno Bruno
I know! I completly feel you! I have been on both sides too! You know what, do what makes you happy! As long as you are healthy. Who cares what stupid people think, if they were actually nice, they wouldnt care what you look like.
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Alann Alann
your body is yours, not your husband/bf, not your neighbors, not society. f the society, think for yourself, god damn them that thinks for yourself, breakthrough that border, make this reality your own, they don't own you but they try to, so f them. live your life, i too have struggled in this society telling me what the f i should do, well f them cause they don't even have the answers even to their own. live your life, you're wasting it if your not living it. can you just say f this society that tells me what to do, how i should think. i am my own... hope this should cure your emotional dilemma.
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Alann Originally Answered: Why do girls in our society not care about there weight?
famouse people only keep their waights like that because they are trying to keep an image and look good for the public. also because they have the money for surgery, personal trainers and what such. not all models are thin. there are plus sized models. thin models sometimes do drugs which keeps them skinny since it tricks the mind about their hunger and they also use diet pills, and also have the money for personal trainers and such. models sometimes get fired or dont get any jobs if they gain any weight. they only choose models that are at the needs of the fashion desighners. they all have eating disorders!Honestly you sound very offencive and shallow. I am not what you call fat im actually pretty thin, but there are mulitple reasons why the publics weight is so high. money, is one issue.fast foods are another. People arn't born being taught how to eat properly and as healthy like they are in japan. People sometimes eat because of people like you who see models as "perfect weight". Other are at high weight points because they just dont care about what people like you think and accept what they are. Some have eating dissorders. and other disorders like when they dont eat much they still gain weight because of some sort of dissorder they have i know someone like that and they're constantly blaiming themselves because they're "fat". some people have very slow metablisms. some people are on birth controll or supplementary pills that cause them to gain weight. some people like being that way. stress is another thing that can really cause someone to gain weight. My mom is always stressed and she because stressed because of something i'd rather not talk about taht happened when we were little. Because of her stress she gained a lot of weight and now that she has less stress she started loosing a bit of weight. she never really eats much.and i mean ever. she always eats slow, and she's tried to loose the weight with anything possible but she could never get rid of it. another reason is because some people have under fat which is extremely hard to get rid of. there are many reason's why. AND HELLO WE LIVE IN AMERICA!!!!!!!! so stop being so damn shallow and grow up!

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